Episode 032 - Don’t Touch Me! (But Hold Me Closer)

Aug 4, 2025    Bernice Morris, PJ Morris

Summary


In this episode of the Peculiar Podcast, hosts Bernice and PJ explore the complexities of intimacy in Christian marriage, discussing the balance between wanting space and affection. They emphasize the importance of communication, emotional safety, and practical steps to rebuild intimacy, while also highlighting the spiritual aspects of connection. The conversation is filled with personal anecdotes and biblical references, making it relatable and insightful for couples navigating their own relationships.


Takeaways


Intimacy in marriage encompasses emotional, physical, and spiritual aspects.

Communication is key to navigating intimacy and distance in relationships.

Physical closeness without emotional safety does not work.

Disconnection in marriage can invite negative influences.

Intimacy requires intentionality and deliberate actions from both partners.

Prayer can strengthen intimacy and connection in marriage.

It's important to check in with each other without pressure.

Scheduling intentional time together can help rebuild closeness.

Emotional connection often leads to physical connection.

Holding each other close starts in the heart, not just the bedroom.


Titles


Navigating the Complexities of Intimacy

The Balance of Space and Affection


Sound bites


"It's a we opportunity."

"Don't panic, just pivot."

"We love praise reports."


Chapters


00:00 Navigating Intimacy in Marriage

03:25 The Complexity of Affection and Space

09:35 Rebuilding Connection and Intimacy

14:51 Prayer as a Foundation for Intimacy